@a_musingcat imo they should be able to but otoh it is often a temporary impulse and life gets better and they're glad they didn't so like 🤷♀️ probably needs a waiting period where you get whatever support to live as good & healthy a life as you can and then judge?
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Reply · Mar 6, 2023@provinghuman @Theholisticpsyc perhaps forever alones are making the right choice for them?Reply · Mar 13, 2026@foomagemindset idk, idk if they're very likely but surely i think two weeks is too soon to declare failure.Reply · Apr 24, 2023@HephaistosF @s_r_constantin yeah it can happen that way... hopefully the cutting off is temporary and before too much damage so the relationship can…Reply · Aug 18, 2026@transkatgirl no no you really can wait, drag it out as long as possible for max fun before consequences hit