@a_musingcat lol the most convincing thing i've heard is that gender is an expression of your sexuality- the role you want to play & how you want to relate to your partner....
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Reply · May 22, 2023@alterwyx what that sex is an actual thing and gender is just an excuse to bully ppl?Reply · Aug 25, 2026i used the terms for gender expression not identity, expression is about voluntary observable traits which includes patterns of behavior? personally i…Reply · Jun 13, 2023@NoncanonicAleae gender seems like a social construct tho so there's nothing to work out alone- alone I'm just me?Reply · Aug 9, 2023@rickyflowsinyou this makes a lot of sense when you consider the usual gender roles