@nickcammarata @eshear huh... imo best effort & honest mistake = be grateful and only mention the frosting once later as a note for next time, w no pouting... being unhappy enough for it to escalate into a fight seems childish... tho imo both sides are responsible for their reactions and asking him to leave is kinda extreme too... (tho, completely reading into it, if he's fussing about his exact birthday cake he also sounds like the type to expect birthday sex which then I understand why she might head that off with "please leave" before getting into bed together...)