i've never ceased to wonder at the social dynamic where if you want to increase someone's loyalty to you, you ask *them* for a favor, not the other way around
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Reply · Apr 24, 2023yeah... idk I feel like loyalty extends to giving the benefit of the doubt, taking charitable interpretation, giving measured feedback... but not to…Reply · Mar 17, 2024@huntythelion techniques vary, but tugging on people's goodwill rather than give n take peer relationship emotionally taxing conversation but never…Reply · Aug 3, 2023@alterwyx an obligation no, but... interacting w someone routinely over months, remembering details about them, making an effort when they ask for…Reply · Sep 14, 2023@eris_nerung we lost appreciation for loyalty