@RealSassyKat I think particular experiences make a strong impression, it's not just the average of your days... also that interfamilial relationships matter - birth order makes a difference in personality traits because of how you relate to siblings & parents. Also, unless you were adopted you could make the same argument wrt genetics & such - that it doesn't explain why ppl who share the same mix of genes would have an outlier vs 3 similar siblings.
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Reply · Jan 26, 2022@AlexGodofsky Hm, I think different families are different. My mom and her sister raised us 4 kids together, those cousins might as well be my…Reply · Oct 16, 2025@dissproportion idk in my mom's family the younger siblings have personality disorders, imo because they had to manipulate for attentionReply · Oct 27, 2022@VivaLaPanda_ @rainforbrunch Worst part is that if your kid is not keeping up with half-sibs it’s entirely because of you, genetically and/or…Reply · Dec 5, 2022@DvnnyyPhantom It’s probably my fault more than anyone else’s, or mostly a flaw of the system of grouping children by birthday 🤷♀️ I didn’t relate…