@__justplaying huh I think it's a bit of an overstatement but there's arguments in favor of blocking off time on busy calendars for intimacy, and then intentionally trying to engage & go with it unless you feel a decided "no"
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Reply · Dec 14, 2021@AbysmOfTime @qephatziel Yeah, I mean ideally you'd manage to engage without getting blocked, but ppl are ppl you'll prob offend someone at some pointReply · May 4, 2025@chefeitenko i just question what forms of intimacy are both hedonic enough to be worth the hassles wrt stis, scheduling, jealousy, etc and also not…Reply · Sep 4, 2024@gmamoon888 terrible feeling but also important, real intimacy only happens when you're really seeing each otherReply · Apr 12, 2024@fieldsofbeing i've done the "i'm busy" thing and it keeps the other person hanging around asking "is now better? what can i do to make it easier for…