imo being careless of someone's feelings is not justified by "I'm just being honest" *many* things can remain unsaid ... and even necessary bad news can be delivered deliberately with kindness & authenticity.
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Reply · Apr 12, 2024@NTKrieger yeah i agree w this- if instead the person was vague and put me off without explaining then i'd wonder wtf, and if i later found out it was…Reply · Nov 5, 2022@ImmortalMaiar Emotional honesty is necessary but not sufficient 🫶Reply · Aug 31, 2023@nosilverv 🤣 ohhh, it did seem uncharacteristic, but I try to always take ppl seriously when unsure of context, seems lower risk than laughing in the…Reply · Sep 6, 2023@PrinceVogel @lisatomic5 yes- when she described it, it didn't sound like a thoughtful honest conversation but a careless neg - "i don't think you're…