ever feel you have a very accurate read on someone's dysfunction but keep it to yourself out of politeness & non-interference...? I do, fairly often... which is fine, but it makes me wonder if there are ppl out there who have this feeling about me and if so I do wanna hear it!!!
oh- here's the link if you feel like saying something without attribution https://ngl.link/mimi10v31
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