@mmt_lvt lol women understandably don't want to be the rebound while you're still processing your breakup; talking about past relationships early on is a red flag... talk about it with ppl you aren't trying to date or wait till they're truly in the rear view mirror?
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Reply · Aug 21, 2023@a_real_society I think it feels better to ask early & often vs. be selective & build it up and feel awful when maybe the rejection isn't about you…Reply · May 27, 2025@lumpenspace 🤷♀️ ... 🥰 ... i DO generally agree w your take that discussing current relationship dynamics publicly is not worth itReply · Sep 18, 2023@a_musingcat lol more like worrying about my frens posting messy breakup story to Circles n having it propagateReply · Oct 17, 2025@ozyfrantz being *friendly* and able to coexist in the same community after a breakup is good / being still quite attached to & orbiting an ex is more…