the lesson I'm resisting is that when community members fight or hurt each other it is always best to stay silent ... I never accused the guy who raped me and feel so guilty for the next coworker he might have assaulted... but maybe it WAS the right choice to protect myself?
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Reply · Mar 20, 2022@levihazherpez @deepfates I used to believe this, and so I did nothing when I was raped by a coworker because I didn't feel capable of a direct…Reply · Jan 11, 2022@quotidiania I don't think it would be a good thing for me to self-censor discussion of things that others find triggering. My experience being raped…Reply · Jan 14, 2025@BecomingCritter i did not realize what was going on and then i felt constrained by social pressure to keep quiet ... then i decided not to, and a lot…Reply · Apr 19, 2023sigh yeah it's one thing if it is just dumb or it's from someone I can mute and ignore, but when someone I like posts a rape joke I feel like I ought…