@CoughsOnWombats hah, I feel like maybe it depends on tone? surprises me too if these are intentional.... ppl sometimes say "nice" things like that and I've always wondered why they're so offputting...
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Reply · Feb 10, 2023@gptbrooke @bashu_thanks I sometimes say things that get taken in a wholly different way than I meant them- like, I say "awww" meaning sympathy and it…Reply · Jun 2, 2023@allgarbled so true, pretty clearly just horniness directed into what they think is a more socially appropriate expression (but it is not!)Reply · Dec 17, 2025@Duderichy dislike - i've only experienced this in group settings where i think the norm places unreasonable cognitive demands and sets people up to…Reply · Sep 13, 2023@getnormality lol completely... tbh i think there's more truth to this than ppl wanna admit, when it comes to how they *treat* ppl