@megs_io yeah, funny mix between "don't be passive, express preferences" and "don't do this weird thing I dislike" (for lots of somewhat popular things) ... clearly ppl need to communicate their particular preferences more!
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Reply · May 21, 2023@Slplss_In_Japan @angelfir_e @Aella_Girl hah! I mean if I have a chance to choose / communicate I avoid stuff I don't like... it's having it sprung on…Reply · Oct 2, 2023@DemonSynth I guess I'm kinda passive, so ppl who choose to just engage w me a lot persistently regardless of how unresponsive I am... and yet it…Reply · Oct 23, 2023@YeshuaisSavior lol, this is the tricky thing about responsive preferences, which I have too... I like it if the other person is into it but otherwise…Reply · Mar 21, 2022@xsphi Idk, it just seems more productive than everyone being upset with each other for conflicting preferences