@motusalt 😬 that is my #1 ick... either naïveté or neediness or carelessness, to overcommit way too fast- I feel I can't rely on someone who does that, like I want someone to wait till they can really mean what they promise
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Reply · Oct 12, 2022@Estimatrix Lol do you actually have to follow up though? It’s so easy to overcommit oneself… 😅Reply · Jun 28, 2023@AbigailSossen @growing_daniel lmao, you've gotta walk that fine line between ok and crazy so they're never quite able to commit you but also not…Reply · Jun 28, 2023@alterwyx yeah but also need the commitment mechanism of embarrassment to help keep me to it!Reply · Sep 9, 2022@faithfulfootman Like being competent and quick, dislike the extra effort it takes and lack of appreciation for the effort