@The_Bit_Signal @garybasin @sailaunderscore sigh no it's an important distinction to invite & flirt vs to creepily scheme to incapacitate them or put pressure so they can't say no
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Reply · May 17, 2023@sailaunderscore nah it has to do w the perception of risk... ppl who seem non threatening & clearly not a potential romantic interest can be flirted…Reply · Jul 26, 2023@BecomingCritter introduce yourself with a smile, be reasonably direct, don't give creepy physical compliments choose the time & place so there's an…Reply · Nov 15, 2023@_ali_taylor yes definitely- removing physical intimidation makes it easier to argue & flirt, removing sensory issues makes it less draining than irl…Reply · Oct 7, 2023@ded_ruckus @HephaistosF and then there are those of us in the middle who want to be approached only in non-scary appropriate circumstances & styles…