the tension between *I really wish I'd had more guidance and structure when I was younger* and *I am a reasonably capable adult and don't trust my volunteer guides know better than me, on the whole*
at any rate, fighting against a friend telling me what to do is a waste of energy, I don't need a daddy.
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Reply · Aug 13, 2025@tasshinfogleman it's difficult to say- i was a very shy anxious child and i wish i'd found closer friends who understood me better, but i'm not sure…Reply · Apr 28, 2023haha SO true, I wish I hadReply · Dec 31, 2024@zhephod 🫶 truuuu i wish i had a nice hardcover set ... 🤔Reply · Dec 6, 2023@EspToTheFuture 😅 ah i shud b more honest- how do i convince myself emotionally it's time to decide?