@redaction yeah sigh it's annoying, the question is nbd- and like, the whole problem starts w ppl not wanting to admit their interest in each other but just coyly hint and then get angry if their interest isn't read and acted on... grow up and own your desires and it all gets easier
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Reply · Feb 2, 2023@vestiphile aww, yeah I feel like if someone isn't interested they're just not interested, not a challenge to be manipulated into attractionReply · Jul 27, 2026@ShadowyZephyr @DemonFramed i mean i'm not gonna express interest when it is 50/50 they'll date me but be lowkey resentful and make my life worseReply · Nov 29, 2023@BadMan98368882 well, in an ideal world it wouldn't be.... but if the guy's visible yearning & possessiveness is becoming a problem..?Reply · Nov 12, 2023@redaction to me the two opposing expectations are: - own your desires & intentions, don't be ashamed or apologize for feeling & expressing attraction…