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reading through old DMs, realized I'm often not fully present & responsive to the other person... I struggle with multitasking and when I have multiple concurrent conversations the emotions and mental context carry between them and I derail the conversation with thoughts…
hmmm but otoh I do like synchronous chat conversations - quick back and forth because both ppl are paying full attention. I kinda wish ppl were more clear with full vs partial focus and synchronous vs async expectations.
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Reply · Nov 3, 2023@Samantha1989TV yeahhhh that is a big part of my problem- I read a few pages and feel completely overwhelmed again and pause and just try to gather…Reply · Oct 10, 2023@HephaistosF yeah.... tbh I feel bad not DMing w you more but you know what is on my mind, I'll figure it out but need to not procrastinate / be…Reply · Nov 19, 2022@heffiemetal Focused work, I lose track of time completely… Vs if I’m context shifting I get very irritable and tiredReply · May 3, 2023@chopstickfury01 hehehe my DMs are always overwhelming, but this makes it so much worse bec can't reply n forget