@bobz44 the question is whether you're ok with being wrong & losing arguments or not, imo... otherwise you're expecting the woman to know better and yet say nothing which seems dishonest & the opposite of intimacy imo
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Reply · May 10, 2024@erroneous_input in which way, deception or lack of interest in a long term intimate relationship?Reply · Sep 4, 2024@gmamoon888 terrible feeling but also important, real intimacy only happens when you're really seeing each otherPersonal reflectionReply · Nov 17, 2023@animalologist @SonyaTwete also imo fucks up intimacy if you can't really be vulnerable about mistakes & flaws... ofc is also bad to bond over flaws &…Reply · Mar 18, 2024@itinerantfog yeah not debating that, more reacting to "you're not being honest with yourself" and past bad experiences i've had w men asserting they…