@visakanv @crystalxduan oh, huh I was thinking like "after going for a run to calm down" reflection... sigh, i mean it's not something i've ever said, except maybe ending things after a few dates before ever saying i do love them... but that sucks if ppl get that broken by it
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Reply · Nov 15, 2023@crystalxduan @visakanv hmm I mean maybe not in the moment but upon reflection?Reply · Nov 15, 2023@crystalxduan @visakanv yeah maybe the second part "it was all a lie" is the worse part... that would be upsetting, i've never been on either side of…Reply · Jun 27, 2025@Vveeveeanna @tailcalled i think i'm very warm & romantic with someone i love! warmth doesn't preclude rational analysis tho!Reply · Dec 15, 2023@lumpenspace yes, i had really been struggling to untangle my emotions and once i was feeling less emotional about the topic i could think more…