@PicoPaco17 idk, a long time... belief that sexual abusers can be very likable interesting normal ppl in other respects, even in other relationships, and ppl prefer to think in black and white good ppl / bad ppl and they don't want to reject their friend so they won't believe accusations
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Reply · Oct 6, 2023@Archadius7 doubtful that sexual abuse can be quite wonderfulReply · Jun 15, 2025@animalologist yeah, i feel like in a smaller less mobile community most friends would know you both from before your relationship and would have more…Reply · Dec 1, 2025@cosmos_raj what do they seem to dislike- is it particular traits that you associate with your gender? or like they've been traumatized by sexual…Reply · Jul 26, 2023@GarrettPetersen yes, the rapists. make it difficult to trust / bond with anyone else afterwards