@georgejrjrjr @qephatziel avoiding having to reject ppl because it scares me because of past trauma
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Reply · Oct 24, 2023@Aella_Girl being responsive but not reactive... due to past trauma I will always "tap the brakes" at least once before fully letting go with someone…Reply · Nov 25, 2023@georgejrjrjr @qephatziel it's the process of getting to know ppl before i can tell who would be a good friend? and i don't remember the details, but…Reply · Jan 3, 2024@Lizquidity yeah... i mean i *dislike* being rejected but it isn't emotionally fraught like rejecting someone can be for meQuote tweet · Mar 21, 2024funny thing is this works as a filter even when talking about it- men who want mutual enjoyment are reassured by the idea