@georgejrjrjr @qephatziel it's the process of getting to know ppl before i can tell who would be a good friend? and i don't remember the details, but rejecting anyone makes me extremely anxious... so i avoid getting involved w ppl to begin with / prefer ppl who are somewhat avoidant & ambivalent
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Reply · Nov 25, 2023@georgejrjrjr @qephatziel avoiding having to reject ppl because it scares me because of past traumaReply · Mar 21, 2024@Samantha1989TV yeah, towards most ppl i feel some lowkey desire to understand them but also fear of getting close n being obligated into friendship i…Reply · Aug 21, 2023@a_real_society I think it feels better to ask early & often vs. be selective & build it up and feel awful when maybe the rejection isn't about you…Reply · Mar 16, 2024@nominalthoughts I mean meeting someone new, tho tbh also i am less friendly irl and know ppl from different contexts who might have different…