@lumpenspace gender wars aside, my theory is that when u get to know someone well enough you'll either love or despise them, no middle ground
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Reply · Apr 11, 2024@Nominus9 i suppose but imo there's attraction first and then love grows over time, and also ppl can love their friends tooReply · Feb 6, 2024@GreyMindMatters i don't think so exactly... it happens when you spend time w ppl you would like to understand / love?Reply · Apr 21, 2025@market_death no, i don't know you well enough to love you per my definition of itReply · Mar 22, 2026@PaulaGhete i feel neutral towards many men at first sight- nothing objectionable about them but also no particular appeal. it takes interaction to…