trying to frame a conflict as not a conflict causes the person on the receiving end to feel dissonance between their emotions vs what they're allowed to say within the frame / look like the source of conflict if they fight the framing and point out the conflict?
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Tweet · Sep 15, 2026i feel like some ppl see conflict as mostly a matter of misunderstanding or a small group of bad selfish greedy people who need to be…Reply · Dec 3, 2023@NoncanonicAleae sounds like ur unhappy w the actual object level conflicts not just which way the conflicts are mediated?Reply · Nov 13, 2024@Ken67547214 yes in theory but in practice if i really fully understood & appreciated the other side of the story it probably wouldn't be such a…Reply · Dec 11, 2023@bobz44 how does this apply when a person you are close to has a conflict w a person you are not close to?