do y'all ever get that starry eyed admiration for someone who seems superior & nigh infallible..? and then they say or do something very cringe and the hero worship crumbles into embarrassment? how do you stop doing that?
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Reply · Sep 4, 2023should probably work to see them as full flawed rounded humans rather than idols, and/or to be more ok with admiring someone who deserves criticism.…Reply · Sep 17, 2023@Nominus9 that terrible terrible feeling when smartest guys you know admire someone who seems like a bullshit artist to you...Quote tweet · Sep 15, 2023so true... aspirational hypocrisy is a good thing- who do you want to be? https://x.com/the_wilderless/status/1702595301570130416Reply · Feb 2, 2023@CyberpunkJesus yeah I think I agree, up to a point... sometimes excessive "good girl!" feels like the person is setting himself above me as judge