@newthotguy @lumpenspace yeah true, i feel like if u think ur exes r terrible ppl its a reflection on u for choosing to date them... didnt work out / we're still frens is the usual outcome (n drift into not keeping in touch w most of them, but if they called me for some reason id answer n b friendly)
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Reply · Aug 22, 2024@motusalt yep sighhhh, i've concluded it is a pathology of some ppl to idealize & be in love w the last serious ex ... ig it allows them to continue…Reply · Oct 17, 2025@ozyfrantz being *friendly* and able to coexist in the same community after a breakup is good / being still quite attached to & orbiting an ex is more…Tweet · Mar 9, 2024it's the saddest thing to see an ex and have the feeling of "how was i ever attracted to that person?"Reply · Mar 16, 2024@motusalt yeah sigh, i have a history of being the last person they date for a long time.... 😅 like, idk what to make of it, my breakups usually…