@QiaochuYuan 💯 ... i feel like if u use it so casually then what do u say when eventually u feel something deeper? seems more important to me to have a word set aside to mean something more serious than just warmth & attraction
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Reply · Apr 17, 2023@Luminous_Air oh I figure that means "don't take a relationship too seriously" as like a signal they only want casual sexReply · Jan 20, 2024@br___ian oh definitely easier to be affectionate here and yes definitely isn't the same, but like... irl affection is risky when it gets…Reply · Jun 27, 2025@Vveeveeanna @tailcalled i think i'm very warm & romantic with someone i love! warmth doesn't preclude rational analysis tho!Reply · Dec 7, 2023@Samantha1989TV @QiaochuYuan i see it as risk:benefit tho- if u say "i love you" to someone who takes it seriously and you mean it casually and then…