@ChuckBaggett the decision to do *something* was partially made by deciding to show up in the backyard in the first place tho? once ur there ur likely to follow group consensus of ur friends, but the tendency to coordinate vs deadlock by insisting on ur personal preference is net good?
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Reply · Dec 12, 2022@meteor_cultist My brain doesn’t work that way and from the outside it feels very frustrating to watch everyone quickly find a suboptimal consensus,…Reply · Apr 19, 2023because it causes drama and mutual friends choosing sides and bickering about it... it's funny it is actually easier to hang out w ppl who have very…Reply · Nov 30, 2024@StatsLime i think it's mentally taxing to both hold an independent perspective & also track and engage gently w the tribe's opinion, easier to choose…Reply · Mar 21, 2022@xsphi Idk, it just seems more productive than everyone being upset with each other for conflicting preferences