@HephaistosF @LastWordSword sigh, yes but only partly a subtweet - is also me thinking through the perspective of the ppl I distrust (and no, that's not you) ... if I were on the receiving end of "I don't trust you and idk why" what would I do?
@HephaistosF @LastWordSword (there was some other drama in a totally separate friend group at the same time as your situation, i am subtweeting some incoherent blend of both sigh)
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