i can see how my inner conflicts result in me being unreliable- idk how i will react to particular situations- what combination of feelings would result in what actions... sense of loyalty to family & friends, to keep secrets and be on their side sense of justice & wanting to punish ppl who do harm sense of self preservation & staying out of trouble & deflecting blame past trauma -> irrational levels of anxiety & anger & predisposition to fit new experiences into old memories