i don't believe more conversation necessarily solves anything, i don't believe i can fix everyone or that i'm invulnerable or that conversations don't matter enough to cause harm or whatever tf beliefs make ppl think conversation is always the solution
last time there was conflict i found it extremely aversive to be in the middle w everyone talking to me; this time i picked a side in advance and avoided the psychic harm; which ofc doesn't mean i was more helpful overall this time vs last, but personally...
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