@indif4ent yes... in an intimate relationship w someone i want a lot of trust and both of us caring abt both ppl's interests... being curious & creative abt what works best for both is great / rule-lawyering abt how little you can get away w caring for the other person is awful
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Reply · Nov 27, 2024@TarquinKevin i thought trust was the basis for intimacy? 🥺Reply · Jan 30, 2024@bubu4ubu 🤷♀️ in a relationship i want both attunement to subtle signals and willingness to clarify as needed, getting better at reading each other…Reply · Feb 19, 2025@RBudkin37203 yes you're misunderstanding me. wanting to be liked != rushing intimacy and seeking out shortcuts to a normal pace of progressive…Reply · May 10, 2024@erroneous_input in which way, deception or lack of interest in a long term intimate relationship?