@HephaistosF maybe u could write letters to them without sending them, so you can say all the things you need to say & find some peace w it, take responsibility for the part you really feel is your part in it... without mixing it with efforts to change their mind?
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Reply · Mar 7, 2025@ArtemisConsort do it please! it's difficult to talk about from the outside without offending friends who feel under attack, but i don't see how it…Reply · Jun 21, 2023@nbouscal @dheisman @goblinodds @bashu_thanks 🤔 perhaps... I've been trying to be more direct... it isn't easy to change!Reply · Sep 14, 2022@lumpthought Imo if anything the message should be “get more angry! and use the anger to power you to change the situation!” Emotions exist for…Reply · Mar 19, 2023@lillybilly299 noooo you can't fix him! also the most impactful thing you can do to affect him is to walk away n find someone who's available