i'm overall proud of e/acc vibes: building cool stuff, fitness & health, hanging out with supportive friends, optimism & problem solving attitude, friendly but open to debate and different perspectives, people doing their own thing not trying to climb an e/acc ladder

vs tbh... tpot sometimes... i have increasing qualms 😞 trying to figure out why i feel this way

ig w e/acc ppl i've had nerdy arguments w lots of ppl and witnessed uglier fights, but they feel psychologically safe, like there's a community who try to intermediate & deescalate, & ppl cool off and get over things & reorient to shared goal of e/acc future

i super respect e/acc ppl like @bayeslord and @entelechiada who have overwhelmingly positive vibes but are not afraid of speaking their mind and being disagreeable ... yet without getting emotional themselves when other ppl getting heated