@bhohner but more than that, all grandparents and many other relatives nearby, family events and vacations & etc; living in a safe neighborhood, one of the best school districts in the country, never having money worries, family businesses god loves you wholesome religious family, etc

@bhohner also like, weekly library trips for bags of books, lots of hiking and fishing and camping trips one grandad entrepreneur-engineer kind quirky thoughtful generous person, & grandma w a lot in common w me oth granddad career military & youth minister, grandma special ed teacher

@bhohner oh also my parents DID buy me a pony 🥰