funny to be cast in the role of "angry woke mob accuser" when i'm also friends w @HephaistosF (recently doxxed by aella to be Brent Dill) and think his outcast status is disproportional & that he was scapegoat for widespread fucked up behavior among SF Rats
ofc important footnotes- he was honest w me about his identity & past & accusations from early in our DMs; he has always been remorseful and acknowledges his brokenness and need for intensive treatment for his childhood cptsd; he has been celibate for 5+ yrs knowing he isn't capable of a healthy romantic relationship; while he can be very difficult & extremely dramatic, he respects my boundaries when ive had enough of his drama