ok maybe it does depend exactly where you draw the line wrt "kink" or "bdsm"... but i know i don't want to be hurt physically or emotionally, i don't want my agency taken away, i don't want to feel used or disrespected, and i don't really like the goth / leather aesthetic https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1738984533758730417
otoh sensory play that's not painful... being a happy follower to a wise leader... service as love language... belonging & loyalty... yes to all of that, is that "kink"? https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1630450261725528066?s=46 https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1630450261725528066
like, giving massages is wonderful https://x.com/mimi10v3/status/1701785033302814761