wrt "hired a PI" not exactly- i was telling a friend abt my first tweet and how frustrating it is to give zero details bec they're not mine to share... mentioned that the one potentially verifiable detail was rumor of a criminal record... they said "give me the twitter handle and let me see what i can figure out" so i did and they did and i was kinda shocked by the record they found i asked some friends what to do with it... no one came up w any reasons not to post it except that id get angry replies... and otoh that they agreed ppl should b aware- none of them had known before i shared it w them... so i went ahead and posted it