😆 at the emphasis on "upscale" ... but yes to meeting ppl thru irl social experiences rather than by swiping (ok tbh i've never tried the app thing but how can u gauge attraction from a few photos?) i'd add: - hanging out w a book at your local coffeeshop or bar - going to your favorite museums & galleries & music venues more often - attending neighborhood parties and events - group birding, hiking, rafting, etc