but also i catch myself being selfish, inconsiderate, unfair, dramatic, lazy, passive-aggressive, fearful, judgmental, imperfect... often in little ways, sometimes more
his presence is motivation to make choices i respect, to practice self-compassion and integrity, to more often be the person i want to be 🫶
since i met him i've done therapy for old trauma, i've been eating better and exercising more, i want to be a happy healthy kind partner...