like, there's solidness and lightness and warmth that make someone appealing... 🤔 and then i also enjoy some dramatic smart original ppl who aren't either of those things... 🤔
i appreciate intellectual honesty and pliable minds that learn and update but also push back stubbornly when something doesn't make sense
also have been thinking about geek social fallacies wrt exclusion etc- i really do think it's fine to not like everyone and for ppl to have different constellations of friends that don't all like each other https://plausiblydeniable.com/five-geek-social-fallacies/