@Nominus9 this is something i've only realized through my time here- there will always be disputes n conflicts erupting in a group and trying to be a moderator in the middle gets you hated by all sides but anxiously avoiding conflict keeps you low status and irrelevant
@Nominus9 so, you do have to sometimes choose a battle- ideally one where you can be David to a Goliath who has more status than actual goodwill from the group