like, it would probably cause some relationship strains- to be asked to pay for things and have to decide what feels right and be assertive, some ppl won't be happy with my decisions, inevitably... but i really do think my immediate family n close friends would be cool about it
and otoh, having ur own pile of cash makes you a more comfortable friend for other ppl with money- who are often very interesting ppl and potentially great new friends... hopefully i could get the Bezos DC house hosting regular salons