@IvyAstrix yeah... i think the ratio + frustration -> unpleasant environment feeling like prey -> selection bias for the women who still choose it- techbros & woo folks who happen to be women, female partners of tpot guys, plus those who most benefit from the ratio (sexworkers etc)
@IvyAstrix but also yes you're right abt organizers & community leaders being able to set the tone & attract ppl who vibe w it