😒 i've not been entirely honest w why i am not attending vibecamp- the truth is i'm not interested in attending irl events where the most prominent person can't stop tweeting about her rape fetish
aella's audience disproportionately consists of sexually inexperienced socially awkward men who are notably bad at distinguishing desire vs terror in the eyes- what is their takeaway? it plants the idea a woman doing normal shy girl things secretly wants to be raped.
and who does this sort of tweet benefit? not the shy awkward vanilla girl who likely can't change all her upbringing & mannerisms; not the autistic dude who is now in even greater confusion as to how & when to initiate good consensual sex.