confusion & double standards around consent only benefits rapey dudes who can point to this sort of tweet as "i thought her no meant yes" and high status slutty women who can have ambiguous consent sex and then retroactively declare it rape or fine as it suits them
actually i should say more- there's a really unhealthy pattern w consent fuckery where men think they're aggressing consensually and then after the fact their actions are characterized as assault and their guilt is used to manipulate them