@jessald the best you can hope for- fairly healthy till his 90s, lots of family around and money enough for any care he wanted ... and yet still unpleasant- so weak he couldn't get out of bed unassisted, ached and itched and restless, once he accepted death was coming he wanted it over
@jessald my dream was that he had accepted death and we all moved on to grieving and left him to the hospital and i didn't even know whether he had yet passed (this is not at all what happened so idk why i dreamed it that way)