anyway low tfr isn't abt insufficient income or just dating app dysfunction, we are awash in anti-natal memes teens hear "whatever you do don't get pregnant it will ruin your life" therapy culture blames parents - who would want to become a parent when they hate their own?
stats & narratives about single mothers are pretty damning- i had an abortion rather than become a single mom when my partner said he would never talk to me again if i had the child