realizing maybe one of the reasons ppl read me as autistic is there's a naive cards-on-the-table move i tend to make where avg normie would keep their head down and be noncommittal & friendly
i do it because everyone playing it safe is boring - *someone* has to make a move and going honest curious object level is usually neutral to helpful to the group, grounding abstractions and moving the conversation forward
realizing maybe one of the reasons ppl read me as autistic is there's a naive cards-on-the-table move i tend to make where avg normie would keep their head down and be noncommittal & friendly