feminine social dynamics less likely to result in a physical tussle; less likely to send anyone off in a huff of "fuck you" independence, for obvious evopsych reasons .... doesn't mean it is any less consequential, there's still relative status to be sorted out
and as our population has scaled up, as we've urbanized, incentives shift towards feminized conflict resolution- you can't stalk off in a huff and hunt/forage without social interaction when you're in a city of millions. this is my understanding of "longhousing"